Free NaNoWriMo word count calendar!

Hello Everyone!

As promised on my social Media accounts here is the NaNoWriMo calendar I created just for you!

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Without further ado here is the link to the document: NaNoWriMo Calender

Until next time use the power of stories to empower yourself and empower others so together we can be a Powered Crowd for positive change!


Message from Another Walk of Life: Mao Yang

Hello everyone! Today I have another amazing guest for my message from another walk of life segment! This guest is Mao Yang and she will talking about physical disabilities and what that means to her and what she thinks you should know about it. There is so much great information her and things to learn, so without further ado let’s jump right into the interview!

Can you tell us a bit about yourself to start?

Hi everyone!!!! First off before I get started, I just wanted to say thank you to Maya for giving me this opportunity and allowing me to share her space with her. It is an honor I do not take lightly and I am so happy to be here. I am a writer/storyteller/dreamer of peace and positivity and amateur disability awareness advocate.

What Project are you currently working on?

As a person with a creative mind, I think the more accurate question is when am I not working on a project, to be honest with you. I am always looking to do collaborations such as guest posts with as many fellow bloggers or websites as I can, submit poetry, articles or editorials to magazines and literary journals, and come up with fresh and new content for my own blog, I try to balance it all.

What message do you have to give about disabilities?

The message I have to give about people with disabilities is that although we may have limitations, we all have our own individual struggles and stories to tell, just like our able-bodlied counterparts so please do not assume you know or think you know what it must be like to have a disability. Open up your mind and give us a chance to show you who we are and exactly what we are capable of. Having and living with a disability is by no means easy, and it is not something I would personally wish anyone to have to deal with, but it is not a death sentence. Some say they can’t imagine how we deal with it, but the truth is, we deal with it because we have to, it’s there, it’s a part of us, and it’s something that can’t simply be ignored in everything we do or everywhere we go. But we are all still human, with hopes and dreams, seeking success, and yearning for love.

What is one common misconception about disabilities?

I think this is a difficult question because it depends on who you ask, every non-able bodied person or person with a disability (Whatever you choose to call it to society will mean the same and most people in the disability community will understand. I just prefer the term non-ablebodied for myself because it only hinders what I can do physically, not how I function mentally or emotionally. But with that said, I do understand why people refer to myself and others with limitations that have to do and think about how they are going to complete a task in a different way or need help in our daily lives as having a disability because I look at it as an umbrella or broad term for limitations that people may have to fight to overcome day in and out, only not in the physical sense, but also in the ways you can’t see because every disability presents itself differently depending on the individual and how it affects them, as not every person with a disability is in a wheelchair.)  I feel will have a different answer based on their own life experience and perception, so I will speak for myself. The biggest misconception that I think people have about people with a disability is that we can’t talk, think for ourselves, and have the ability to feel.

What are your dreams for your future?

My dreams for my future are to publish a book, to continue to inspire people with my thoughts and words, to never stop growing and learning, to become more at peace with myself.

What is a story which has really impacted in your life?

A story that has really impacted my life is a story I did about the #IcebucketChallenge a few years back because at the time I did not know what ALS was. I just saw videos of people pouring heavy amounts of water on themselves again and again like it was just a fashion trend and not a worthy cause. I felt many people did it for just the fun of it, without really knowing the purpose behind it and that while their participation in this challenge would help create awareness, the true difference has to come from their donations. It was the first time I felt really compelled to research and educate myself for a story, and what I found out about this horrible disease will stay with me forever.

What is one piece of advice which has stuck with you?

Dr. Phil once got this advice from his son when discussing whether or not to do a particular episode, “If a person is only going to see one (episode of) Dr. Phil in their entire life, would you be okay if it was this one?” I ask myself that same question when it comes to the stories and topics I write about.

Anything you would like to add?

I would like to encourage those of you reading this to try each day to impact people in a positive way.  Whether you have known them for 30 seconds or a lifetime, everyone needs and deserves to feel valued. Through a simple smile, wave, helping hand, or few kind words, you could change someone’s day, week, or view of life.

Where can people find you online?

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Until next time use the power of stories to empower yourself and empower others and together let’s be a Powered Crowd for positive change!

How to Create some Stories and Memories this Fall!

It’s Finally Fall!….OK, maybe the official start of fall is already passed but for me when October arrives I feel that the arrival of Fall can no longer be denied.

Fall brings with it many amazing stories, we have the spooky Halloween stories, we have the comforting feel good stories that we want to have when sitting next to the fireplace. We have the stories of the great autumn adventures that people have had… in fact this post will be about this last type of story! I want for you to have a fall filled with empowering stories for you to look back on when you are down, I want the memories of your fall 2018 to bring you joy and a renewal of self empowerment when you need it in the middle of winter blue. So in this post I will suggest some top things to do in fall to make some memories and give you some stories to share to spread some cheer. Because after all, this is Powered Crowd and our goal here is to become a powered crowd for positive change. What better way to do this that spread some happy stories and spread some smiles. Not all acts of Positive change need to be big. Sometimes something as small as a smile can create a great big ripple.

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Before I start I want to say that I know fall is different in every place of the world. I also know that everyone has different budgets. So I will strive to make all these ideas affordable and give the disclaimer right now that most of these ideas as for people who have falls which are similar to that of Canada’s. I will however give some options at the end on how you can make your own Canadian fall memories from anywhere in the world so stay tuned for that!

Now, let’s go right into the first one.

1)A first thing which can be really fun to do in Autumn is a wagon ride. A wagon ride is something which can sometimes be free at local farms if not it’s usually under $5! It’s a great small outing to do. If you wanted to make the outing longer you can bring some food and have a picnic. You can also make a day out of it and bring your own phone or camera for a little photo hunt as well. If the wagon ride is at a real farm you can also go and see some animals and maybe even explore a corn maze or as some places do here, go to one of the haunted houses made in the barns. Lot’s of option if you can find a farm nearby!

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2)My next thing costs nothing. It’s going on a nature walk! When it’s fall it’s not too cold, and with all the leaves changing colours there is not a nicer scenery for a short or long walk. Take the opportunity to take some pictures, take some deep breaths, reflect and meditate if you are alone or share some inspiring stories with a friend to leave you feeling empowered and refreshed when you are done. Follow it up with a cup of hot cocoa or tea and you have an outing which costs 2 dollars max. (Unless you splurge on an expensive drink)

3) My next one is apple picking! This is such a fun thing to do as a group. It let’s you spend quality time with other people and trying to grasp those hard to get apples is always good for a laugh and some memories. You do have to pay for the apples, though not the time on a beautiful apple orchard. The good news is that when you are done you can use the apples to make some yummy food so they won’t go to waste. If you want to take an entrepreneurial route to it you can sell your baked goods for charity or for your own profit. I can guarantee you if you follow on of those two paths you will learn quite a bit and have some stories to share to help other people on that journey grow.

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4) Carving a pumpkin! This one can be done at any budget. You can go to a pumpkin patch and pick your own pumpkin and make a day of it. You can buy a large, medium or small pumpkin at a grocery store or farm. You can put the mini pumpkins if you are tight on cash or you can even go to the dollar store and get one for a dollar or two and then decorate it with things you have around the house! Use your creativity and you can even make a contest out of it. See who can make the best pumpkin disguise or challenge your neighbors to participate as well! The good thing with the fake ones is that they can be re-used so for the cash conscious it’s a one time investment of a couple dollars which will last years.

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5) For this last idea I will show you how you can have a fall evening from anywhere in the world.

Step 1: Get the YouTube fireplace channel on or light a candle.

Step 2: Get Some treats like hot chocolate or apple tarts. (If you don’t have access to those be creative and make something similar!)

Step 3: Put on your TV a Halloween

movie or stream it from YouTube

Step 4: Invite friends or make it a family night

Step 5: Get crafty, make your own pumpkin jack o lantern with paper or a fish bowl. You could even knit or learn to knit if you’d like!

Step 6: Enjoy and make some memories!

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So there is some ideas you can use to make some memories and create some stories!

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Until next time use the power of stories to empower yourself and empower others and let’s create a Powered Crowd for positive change!

Message from Another Walk of Life: Ashley Elizabeth

Hello everyone! ,

Today I will be presenting another Message from Another Walk of Life segment! In this segment I interview Ashley Elizabeth. She is a blogger and her goals are all about empowering women and letting people know they are enough.

Watch the video down below for some amazing discussions!

Making positive change doesn’t need to be something hard. I love how Ashley took her personal experiences and decided to use the things they taught her to spread some positive messages. She says how her blog is about fashion but through the interview we can see how those messages she has learned still shine through! Every little step towards sharing those empowering messages make a big different and of course every story share no matter the topic can help empower others. Not to mention when you share your story you can feel empowered yourself as well!

Now here are the promised bonus questions!

What first got you into fashion and/or blogging?

When I first moved out of the county I decided to start blogging just to be able to keep my family and friends in the know.

What is one of your favorite comments you have ever gotten on your blog or social media?

I really love when people ask where i got something. To me that shows that my style is liked. And as crazy as it sounds I sometimes feel like I dress weird. One person did tell me one time “your classy, modest, but edgy trending. you stay on top of trends even when the town/people around you is not’ (this is from someone who lives in the same town as me, its not a huge city)

What are you hoping to do in the future with your blog and the positive messages you want to share?

I hope by blog turns into something people turn to for hope, fashion, and friendships! I want to be transparent with my community and want to make new friends with woman who could benefit from what I offer.

That’s it for today’s post! I hope you enjoyed and learned something from yet another great story and inspiring message from another walk of life!

Until next time, share your story to empower yourself and empower others and be part of a Powered Crowd for positive change!

Is Teaching Important?

Having been back to University courses for a couple weeks now I have an important subject to bring forth. The subject of Teachers.

Teachers are very important not only in their ability to empower children or really of people of any age who are ready to learn but in their ability to use storytelling to change lives.

Let me explain myself. Teachers are a complicated subject. Why? Because teachers are most often than not human beings (though we can find teachers in other things if we get all spiritual), and being human beings means we are all unique and different.

We have the teachers who like their jobs, the teachers who hate their jobs, the teachers who are good at their jobs and the teachers who need to update their teaching practices. We have the teachers with the baggage in their life outside the classroom dragging them down and the teachers who drag the baggage of their life into their teaching for the good or the worse. My list could go on but I hope you see, how diverse teachers can be.

Now, if you have a teacher who is amazing, it can change your life. One single teacher can make you take a certain path on life.

Let me give you an example, there is the bigger examples of stories like the freedom writers, in this story and movie based on a true story(see clip below) we have a teacher who comes from a white middle class background and goes to teach in a school for kids with children of all ethnicities, few white people and a lot of violence, gangs and poverty. This teacher, long story short, shows the students the power of stories and they all make some important changes in their life.


In a smaller example, form personal experience, there is the story of my sister who had an amazing music teacher who inspired her so much that she herself became a music teacher.

Sadly the same goes with a having a bad teacher. I had a teacher who you could almost say bullied me back in first grade and it messed me up for a while.

So what makes a good teacher? It changes for everyone but I feel like storytelling has a big part of it. If a teacher can engage you in a subject matter, there is more chance you will be more engage. If a teacher is dull, more chances you will rebel and fail at that subject matter.

Storytelling can be used in many ways in a classroom. In some classes it’s more obvious, for example a history class. If a teacher makes the history to be taught as a story of real people who used to live and real event that happened X amount of year ago there is more chances the students will remember the story than if the teacher is simply naming facts of what happened.

In any other class the same thing goes. If a teacher uses story, experiences, examples which engage the imagination or the critical thinking skills it will help much more than if someone states facts that are forgotten as soon as the next phrase is spoken or as soon as it is written down on the piece of paper.

Some people have learned to excel in the fact based education but think of young children of today. The children today have so much energy, they have shorter attention spans in some ways because of the amount of technology we have today and they want nothing more than to get out and play. Do you think at that age stating that there was a war in 1812 between United States and the United Kingdom will stick or do think a story of two rival nations fighting for Independence in the tumultuous period of 1812 with the suspense of who will win will make them remember the details more?

Personally the second option sounds better, not only does it make me want to know more but I will the same if not more by learning it through storytelling techniques.

Now going back to University and why this topic came up. In university I feel like the storytelling culture of teaching has disapeared a lot. Some people still have it, discussions are made and people are engaged. Yet some courses even in a English class are simply stating facts about a story. Not engaging with it at all.

I hope that one day the storytelling culture can come back into teaching because when I say that a teacher can empower a student and change their lives for the better, the reverse is also true. I think we should all strive to empower others when sharing wisdom and teaching what we know, so if you are even in that position, don’t forget the power of storytelling in your teaching. Who knows the simple act of making a class more engaging, incorporating facts with other examples or turning facts into stories might just lead to someone coming to you in the future to tell you, you changes my life.

Until next time empower yourself and other through the power of stories and together let’s be a Powered Crowd for positive change!

*** See this video to be inspired***

How the Story of the Ugly Duckling Can Empower You!

Hello everyone!

Today’s blog post will be about the story “The Ugly Duckling” by Hans Christian Andersen. You might have hear about him, he is pretty famous for his fairy tales! If you haven’t heard of him, you will get a chance to know more about him further down the article.

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Before I start I think I should mention that If you are here from the Youtube video (link) I will be repeating some things, yet there will also be some new information in here for you!

Alright let’s start with a brief synopsis of The Ugly Duckling, one day a mother Duck was waiting for her eggs to hatch. They all did except the biggest one which remained unhatched. When it finally did hatch it was different than the other ducklings and the mom thought he was not her own.

The more people saw the large Duckling the more it was ridiculed by the other ducks. Soon even the large ducks sisters and brothers as well started calling it ugly and other such names. The mother duck as is written in the original tale “Wanted him to leave”.

The Story continues with him meeting different animals who all also think him ugly. He decides to leave his home and is now also very self deprecating in his speech towards himself.

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One of the people he meets is a dog and short of eating him he leaves. The duckling thinks it’s because he is too ugly to be eaten.

He keeps facing trials and is always rejected because he is either ugly or can’t do what a normal duck can. In Autumn he sees these lovely birds with big graceful necks and wishes he could be so pretty but soon they are gone and then short after it’s winter. He starts swimming non stop to keep the water from freezing around him but it’s no use. The water is almost completely frozen when a peasant from the nearby village takes his wooden shoes and breaks the ice, picks up the duckling and brings him home to his wife. Unfortunately he had brought it home thinking it dead. But of course he wasn’t and when he came to he made a big mess before escaping into the hard winter.

Winter was harsh and cold for the duckling but he survived. He decides now that it’s warm that he will go see the royal birds. He thinks they will kill him for he thinks he is that ugly but at this point he is a bit suicidal and rather be killed by them than keep living like he had.

He bends his head and asks to be killed and then see’s his reflection and that he has become a swan. The children, of the village say he is the nicest one, the nature around him bows to his beauty and the other swans as well and he is the happiest swan around.

As one of the most famous quotes goes like this “It doesn’t matter about being born in a duckyard, as long as you are hatched from a swan’s egg” —The Ugly Duckling

So there is the story of the ugly duckling. For this blog post and the Youtube video I re-read this story and wow, it was not what I expected. I had this image of it being an inspiring story but in reality it really is really quite sad.

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When we hear about the ugly duckling we think of people who are the underdogs and then defeat all odds and prove others wrong. While this story does have some great messages (which I will go over soon!) it is also a dark story. The self deprecation this poor duck feels to himself breaks my heart a little. It’s something we see a lot in society, for example with bullying. When someone young or even old is told again and again they’re not good enough eventually most start believing it.

Something I will mention about this story before I start saying the great things we can take from it is something many people have commented on. Some people see the story as being centered on solely looks. While it is true that the story talks again and again about being ugly and hated and then beautiful and loved, I think we can take another interpretation from this story which is more positive. Did Andersen write this  story with the thought that looks means everything? I don’t know and I think it will be hard for anyone to rightly know. However like in all things we can acknowledge the possible negative thoughts that accompany something and then focus on the good thoughts, which will make positive waves and not reinforce the bad thoughts.

So to recap, society does put a big importance on looks (it’s a facts)and some people will see this as a story that shows that looks are everything, but I hope most people know there is more to life than looks and will look at the positive lesson of this piece rather than the possible bad lessons.

Now that that’s out of the way let’s focus on the good.

This story of the Ugly Duckling can teach us a lot in terms of good lessons. A first thing I found this story to have taught me is the fact that it’s what’s on the inside that counts. As I mentioned when talking about outwards appearances, there’s more to a person than how they look and this story is a great example of this. The Ugly Duckling goes through many trials in this short story. Yet every time he get’s back up, when people are mean to him he doesn’t hold it against them, yes he puts the blame on himself which is not much better but it does shows how kind he is and how he is beautiful and strong he is even though the characters in the story don’t see it. These traits and more in the story show how beauty can be something found inside of us as well as something which can be perceived from the outside.

A second positive message from this story is the fact that it gives us hope that one day we will find our place. It tells us not to give up because one day we will find our swan family and be happy. This can be taken to be shallow again or it can be taken that we all have a place were we belong. It might be hard to find it and it might take a while. The place we belong to might not resemble swans at all to anyone but ourselves but I do believe that like in the Ugly Duckling we all have the opportunity to find our happy place and like in the Ugly Duckling it’s usually closer than we first thought.

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There are other good messages we can find but for now I want to move on from the positive messages in the story itself. I want to now argue that while this story is a great one, the way society and modern culture has appropriated it is almost more powerful than the story itself. When we read the story of the Ugly Duckling we see the good lessons I mentioned and more but it is an older story. In modern day society many people have never read the story but still feel an attachment when someone mentions the words ugly duckling. It’s because the story has become part of our culture. I can’t say it’s like this all over the world but from experience in North America it’s definitely there.

It’s mostly used to describe someone’s life. People will use the expression “I will tell you my Ugly Duckling story” usually it means the story of how someone has overcome all odds and became who they are today. Of course there is also the people who use it in a more distasteful by making montages of people think are ugly or showing before and after pictures of people who used to be “ugly” according to them and are now “pretty”. An example can be found on this article on Bored Panda in which they show before and after pictures. It can be inspiring for some who don’t like how they look but mostly I think it’s not sending a good message which I have touched on already (We are all beautiful in our own way!).

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When the Ugly Duckling story is used in a better way it can really make an impact even if we have never read the story, since most have heard enough of it to get the jist. One of my favorite uses in modern culture is the scene in the animated movie Lilo and Stitch where the little Alien Stitch starts to feel like he wants a family and he also starts to feel like he is out of place. Like the Ugly Duckling Stitch was and was brought up to believe things that set him apart from everyone around him, he is also thought to be a dog and everyone sneers at him because he doesn’t look like a regular dog, which or course he isn’t just like the Ugly Duckling isn’t a duck. (See the clip below) If you start looking around you you can see that the Ugly Duckling themes are all around us and are used in our society over and over again. The amount of use it’s getting could be because of how much society prizes beauty in our modern day and how much we need some reassurance of our inner beauty. We have social media, Instagram and all these platforms and media’s telling us how to look. The people rejecting this idea that there is only one way to be beautiful uses the historical short story of the Ugly Duckling to help make people feel an emotional connection to the message that we all have our own unique beauty. I like to think that the people using this story for good surpass the ones who use this story for negative influence.

There is so much more to the story of the Ugly Duckling, how does the Author play a part in how the story was written? Is his life related to the Ugly Duckling? Which other inspiring people have an inspiring Ugly Duckling story? What are my experiences with this story? Do I have an Ugly Duckling Story? Go see the video below for all those answers!

Video coming soon!

I want to leave you with a famous quote from Margaret Wolfe Hungerford “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder”. This I think is the main thing to take from the story of the Ugly Duckling. This means to be that Beauty is not just the societies ideal of beauty that are constructed and taught to us from a young age. Beauty is different all over the world, all cultures have different beauty norms (see image below and check out the article that goes with it here). So take comfort in the tale of the Ugly duckling and find your inner beauty.

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Until next time be part share those stories to help empower yourself and other and together let’s make a Powered Crowd for positive change!

Back to School Blues and How to Overcome It

It’s that time of the year, summer is over and it’s time to go back to the usual routine. Back to school means a lot for many different people. When I was really young, I loved it! I would get some first day of school clothes and new pencils and I would walk in to class super excited to start another year. Unfortunately as school moved forward I got more and more badly bullied and school because a place of torment, it wasn’t safe and I was walking in there everyday knowing I would get verbally attacked and maybe even physically hurt.

My bullying story is one I am open about and in fact I have a video planned for it on my Youtube Channel in the future (link here). It’s also something I know I am not alone in experiencing, luckily for me my last 3-4 years of high school weren’t bad bullying wise. Then came University which it’s a whole other beast. Everyone has different learning styles, some excel in a University setting, some like me feel like it is slowly draining them of vitality. I love the clubs and activities at university but I dislike maybe 85% of the classes I have taken thus far because I don’t learn well in a University styled teaching approach.

Let me elaborate. I learn well by discussions, by using my creativity, by doing things with my hands and experiencing them first hand. I learn well with visual aids. I don’t learn well with someone in front of me talking for 2 hours without any visual aids or class interaction which has been a majority of my professors.

Now you might ask, why are you even at University then? Well, the truth is while I might absolutely struggle in a University class environment, the type of employment and opportunities I want to have access to requires a degree from a University. I am also incredibly blessed to have the resources as well as the opportunity to attend University which is something I know some people would kill for, so I take those struggles I have and I push through them. It’s worked so far and I am now officially in my last semester! Once I graduate I am going to hopefully be able to take all the things I learned and worked for, in an environment which wasn’t the right one for me in terms of how I learn, and I will share that knowledge with those around me as well as apply it to Powered Crowd so that as a business, Powered Crowd can help more and more people.

So why did I share those little bit’s of my Story with you? Well if you look into the facts I mentioned you can see a couple things. As in most stories it could be obvious to some of you reading this and less obvious to others as well all process stories differently (That’s the beauty of stories). So here is why I shared these bit’s of my story with you.

Firstly, I wanted to point out that if you have something that makes you anxious to go back to school, it could be bullying like me or that you struggle with the teaching style of your teachers or even that you have a learning disability or a physical disability that set’s you apart from you classmates you are not alone in this feeling.

Not only are you not alone in these feelings, in fact most people feel that same anxiety, some for personal issues we might have no ideas they are hiding. As someone who is entering their last semester of University, I can tell you that while you might want to just hide under your covers and skip school altogether this year, if you take that step and get back into the rhythm of school you will see it will get easier. One foot in front of the other and before you know it you will be reaching the end of your education goals.

The second thing I want you to take from this is that if you struggle in school and learn differently than don’t despair. It’s nothing to be ashamed of, we all learn differently and the school system has a one size fits most template. It’s not because teachers aren’t awesome people, but it’s because there is only one teacher for 30 children these days and it’s literally not possible for them to teach all the the different learning styles at one time. My tips are as follows:

1) Let your teacher know you are struggling. Most will be happy to help.

When I say happy to help I don’t mean they will do the work for you, an important distinction, but they will help you find solutions to help you solve the things you are struggling with and support you with those things.

2) Most school have extra resources for people who learn differently.

Inform yourself on these resources or go in your community and see if you can make a study group, a support group, find a tutor or find people who are there to help you excel at school

The last thing I want you to take from this is that if you are bullied, it might feel like you are walking back into a war zone. Here are my tips:

1) talk about it

Get the help you need and don’t keep quite about it until something is done about it. Some teachers and even Principals (I’ve been there) won’t do much more than the bare minimum if even that but there will be that right person who will believe and support you. Don’t give up, they are out there.

2) Don’t let the bullies win

If you let them ruin your day they win. Take the minute to let the frustration out and then stand tall and let them know your stronger than their words or actions.

If you are feeling the back to school blues don’t despair. You aren’t alone in this feeling and with some work and courage you will see that school will get better. You saw that I struggles with school, and while I wouldn’t do it over again I do have some memories from school that I cherish. Be an explorer and scavenge out those amazing moments everyday and hold on to them for the less than great days.

Are you a parent with a child going back to school? Do you want to know which stories to share with them to help them feel more prepared? If yes go and check out the video below from my Youtube channel where I give my top 5 stories to help kids go back to school. (If you enjoyed please go and subscribe it helps a lot!)

Until next time be part of a Powered Crowd, share those inspiring stories and let’s work together to make this world a better place.

How Love and Hope Overcame All Odds!

Today I am going to tell you a story about love and hope. If you haven’t seen the Introduction post for the new and improved Powered Crowd go here. In short Powered Crowd is now going to narrow it’s platform to bettering and empowering ourselves as well as overcoming our obstacles. Because as mentioned in the linked post I know that once we, as a person, are empowered we can then fully empower others. Storytelling is a big component in this goal and I won’t go into to it too much more as It’s all explained here but today will be a prime example of how stories can leave us feeling more empowered.

So today’s lesson and story will be about two people dear to my heart. My Grandparents. I am lucky to have been blessed with wonderful grandparent’s on both my mom and dad’s side. Both have amazing things to teach and are amazing human beings. Today’s story is about one set of those grandparent’s and their story.

Ok, Ok, enough preamble, let’s jump right in. My grandparent’s met in 1958 my grandmother was18 and my grandfather was 24.The way my grandmother tells the story is pretty great. The first time she met him was a University, he was at the “help” desk they were both waiting in line and talked a bit but nothing too major. Soon they went their separate ways and that was that. No lightning no instant rush of emotions just a random meeting with friendly conversation.

The next time they met was at a school dance, they talked to each other a bit. My grandfather was showing off a bit with his friends and my grandmother noticed him, as the night went on she started to like him a bit but of course this was 1958 so she played it cool and flirted a bit but in a total modest and subtle way.

A couple day’s later she was pleasantly surprised when she got a phone call from none other than my Grandfather. She was sure he was going to ask her out but instead he asked her for her friends number because he wanted to ask her out! My Grandmother was decently upset as she thought the call was for her. The anger stayed for a while but was diminished with time.

They then met a third time. Some time had passed since the phone call incident and my grandmother went out to another dance where low and behold my grandfather was there as well. He was really shy apparently and asked her to dance. Who knows what was going through my grandmothers head at the moment, dancing with the man who asked her friend out but from the way she tells it I think she enjoyed their dancing quite a bit. There was only one problem… she couldn’t remember his name! My grandfather soon discovered this fact and apparently he thought it was because she didn’t like him, which as I stated I think she definitely did. Quite a turbulent start if I say so myself, good new is they ended up dating and then of course they then got married and had children and then grandchildren(like moi) From there on their relationship bloomed and so many other priceless stories can be said about their relationship but those won’t be for today as today’s story goes down a different path.

My Grandfather as I knew him was a happy guy, he always struck conversation with strangers and made everyone smile wherever he went. My Grandfather and Grandmother weren’t rich when they were raising my dad and his brothers but my grandfather who was a teacher would give his own money to any child who didn’t have a lunch. That is just one of a million examples that showed what a kind hearted guy he was.

I feel tears rise up when I hear about this amazing man,(and here is where the story takes a sad turn) the reason for those tears being that today I don’t have a clear picture of this happy man, instead I have a picture of the same man affected by a terrible disease, Alzheimer’s. As this is how I have known him for years and years. Even with this disease he was still such a kind person. When he got to the point where he didn’t know who I was or who his son’s were he still gave us a smile every time we came in to visit and unlike most Alzheimer’s patients he wasn’t violent.

My grandmother was especially sad to see this turn in event’s (quite understandably). I remember my family one Christmas talking in the kitchen about how my grandfather was forgetting a lot of things and they were a bit worried but my grandmother was adamant that he was going to be fine. Soon however it became too obvious for anyone to be able to deny it My grandmother who is one though cookie, took care of him and his increasing forgetfulness as well as battling cancer. They lived on their own and they managed because as I sad my grandfather is a pretty amazing guy and my grandmother is pretty badass. His outbursts where usually not violent with an exception for one night when he rushed to the Tv to attack some cowboys who were hurting a girl on the TV ( I mean isn’t that too sweet, he was trying to protect the girl on the TV. Less fun I guess for my grandmother who was dealing with it)

Soon my grandmother though as she is couldn’t take care of him anymore, her cancer was getting worse. My grandfather went in a home and year by year he was less and less himself. He started forgetting people in his life and eventually he even forgot his wife.

Now the funny thing with Alzheimer’s is that we don’t know everything about it. Some days were better than others, some days I could swear he knew who I was or knew who my grandmother was. Some days he looked off in the distance and didn’t respond to anything. His mouth hung open and his eyes looked empty.

Good day or bad my grandmother would visit very often. She would bring him treats and feed them to him, she would make sure he was getting well taken care of. She soon knew the other patients by name and all the nurses as well.

After being very sick she moved out of her independent living quarters into the same building as my grandfather. They were in different sections of the building but she would visit him almost everyday. On the day my grandfather died I was the last family member to see him. I went in on the spur of the moment, I had an extra treat from an event I attended nearby and thought I would pop in and give it to him. I went in, gave him the chocolate treat and he was not really responsive to anything I said. Though he sure loved that treat! I tried talking to him but I saw that it just wasn’t the type of day where he would even be able to make some sounds that he knew I was speaking to him.

The next day my parent’s informed me that he had passed away. His funeral had a massive turnout and we all reminisced on how he made each of us happier. Even some of his old students from who knows how many years ago showed up. Unlike most funerals in respect to this happy and wonderful man we sang some songs and shared our stories about him.

Now how do all the pieces of this story click together? I mentioned how no one knows how Alzheimer’s really worked. Does the person affected know who is next to them? Can they process or think or does the brain slowly shut down? I don’t have those answers but I do know that my Grandmother never stopped loving my grandfather even when it seemed he had no clue who she was. She hoped that he would somehow know she was there and that it would bring him some reassurance of joy.

When my grandfather passed away we all kept that love for him and the hope he was somewhere better now. It was all we had to go on. Until a couple day’s ago.

My grandmother as I said was in the same building as my grandfather. A little while had passed since my grandfather had passed away and my grandmother was in her room doing her thing when a nurse came by and said “Is your name Luella?”

My grandmother said yes and the nurse continued with:

I have been wanting to talk to you but I hadn’t been assigned to this floor until now. I was on duty when your husband passed away and I knew I had to tell you what happened in his last moment. Right before he passed away he told us ‘Tell Luella hi;”

Now that might seem like much but considering he hadn’t recognized us for about a year and was practically non verbal save a few nonsensical words here and there every now and then it is pretty darn amazing. It shows that my grandmother’s hope and Love might very well have made a difference in the end.

Now how can this connect to your life?

We all do things that we sometimes believe is useless.

I’m starting this business but it’s useless, I’ll never reach my goals. I teach my sibling with a severe learning disorder her letter’s everyday but it’s useless, she’ll never be able to read. I read to my comatose child everyday but it’s useless the doctors say she will probably never wake up.”

One thing I find however is that nothing is ever useless even though it might seem like it is. Every step backward or forward brings us something. Be it happiness, a lesson, a new path to travel etc.. When it comes to love and hope a step a step in that direction can never, ever be considered useless.

Will things always turn out perfect? No, my grandfather didn’t miraculously overcome Alzheimer’s but one thing no one can take back from you is your hope and your love. It is one of our gifts and when it is shared amazing things can happen. In my grandfather and grandmothers example, my grandmother was able to say that all her caring and her continuous hope for my grandfather was worth it in the end. If you put hope and love into something unconditionally you will see rewards, it might not be for a long long time, like the case of my grandmother where it was years of taking care of my grandfather before he passed away but I promise you will always see some rewards in the end. Some of them as priceless as a goodbye from someone who seemed to have lost all his memories.

What is your view on Love and Hope? Leave them down below and let’s have a discussion!

Do you want to know how my Grandmother is also a medical miracle? How she was told her time on this earth was numbered and she defeated all odds? Comment below if you want to know that inspiring story!

Until next time use the power of storytelling, empower yourself and those around you and be part of Powered Crowd.

Changes coming/ The new Powered Crowd!

Hi everyone!

If you are a frequent visitor to this site you might have seen some changes. Powered Crowd changing it’s mission. Now don’t worry. Powered Crowd is still all about creating positive change and being a community focused on helping others be it in your community or abroad but it has now been narrowed down a bit more.

The new Powered Crowd:

Powered Crowd will now be a place that will help you and show you how to empower yourself and live your best life. I strongly believe that by finding yourself and creating your best self you will be able to then empower others. Life is full of ripple effects, if you want to help those around you but feel miserable and unsatisfied with your life than that will be what you project on other even if that is something you do completely unwillingly.

Now if you feel centered in your life and you feel empowered and hopeful you will project those feeling to others and create a ripple effect of positive change.

The new Powered Crowd will also be very storytelling oriented. Stories have been around for ever. It was a way to pass on knowledge and information, a way to pass down cultures and ways of life. Through the power of stories you will be able to achieve what you want in life. I will be sharing stories from people who are helping other feel empowered through their actions. I will sharing people who are making that positive change in their life. I will be sharing personal stories and lesson I have learned in life and stories of experience that have taught me a lot.

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Message From Another Walk of Life – Audrie Astebury

Hi everyone,

Another amazing segment of “Message for Another Walk of Life” is now up! Each interview I make leaves me so inspired and this one was no exception.

What this interview really taught me is the wide range of possibilities when it comes to positive change. For example you wouldn’t think business would be part of making positive change but there is many ways in business that you can make positive impact. I won’t say more because we discuss this all in detail in the interview. Go check it out below!

So what did you think? I know I had so many amazing ideas and I learned so much during the interview and by watching it again!

Before I reveal the bonus questions I want to add that I love hearing form you. Please comment or message me on any social media about this segment or any others segment. Let’s get a discussion going and help spread the message of positive change and empowerment.

Without further ado here is the exclusive bonus questions:

1) Was there a specific moment or event that made you decide to start your own business?

I had several aha moments that resulted from a culmination of events. The biggest take away for me at the time I decided to launch my own company is that it was time to dig deeper and connect more fully with my desire to empower aspiring and seasoned entrepreneurs to thrive. Over a number of years, I had an opportunity to help spearhead campaigns and a variety of initiatives for a number of non-profits and private sector organizations in my spare time. This really enlivened me and it made me aware that a need existed for smaller organizations to fine tune their operations to allow for maximum and sustained growth and I wanted to help facilitate the process.

2) What was the best piece of advice you have received in your life?

The best piece of advice I ever received is to “Be confident in your decisions.”


That’s it for today! Until next time be part of a Powered Crowd and spread some positive change!